Notes on Becoming

“Do not romanticise suffering. There is nothing poetic about a love that breaks your spirit.

Know when to leave.

Some bridges need to be burned so you can use the light to find a better path.

Practice forgiveness.Start with yourself.

Nobody actually ever forgets. Remember the lesson.

Say no.

Do not negotiate with terrorists.

Do not bargain for anyone’s love.

Friendships end. Let go.

Stay open.

Save emotional real estate for the ones that will stay.

Be soft.

Be a safe place for the ones you love.

Create time for yourself.

Create something that will outlive you.

Do things that move your spirit.

Laugh. Cry. Pray.

Love yourself as urgently and as completely as you want to be loved.

Becoming is hard work…

…staying the same is even harder.”

-Stolen from @toyo_e