“It’s all about what you feel you deserve.
If you know you deserve somebody worth loving unconditionally,
those who took you for granted were just chances to grow.
If you know you deserve happiness and truth,
all the liars were just lessons learned.
If you know you’re worth the effort,
the one who fell off are just time saved.
It takes going through a couple bad situations
for us to value the chance to treasure a good one.
The secret is learning not to take that chance for granted,
especially when it’s right in front of your face.
Accept that you won’t always pick the best ones,
some people are easy to care for but hard to be with.
The key is not letting the disappointments get you jaded.
If you’re a woman whose lost hope in men
because you gave the wrong one too many chances,
you’re playing yourself.
If you’re a man who has given up on trusting
because a few people have been disloyal,
you’re cheating yourself.

You’re not a failure at love; your experiences have just prepared you to love better.”

-Rob Hill Snr.

Perspective is everything; you always have the right and the power to choose how you will see things, to determine how you will handle yourself, a situation and your future. No one excercises a power over you that you don’t give them. So, on self acceptance I’m trying to teach myself to accept my faults while avoiding loops of self-recrimination and over-analysis. Choose to change the way you view the same situation today. Change your perspective and you change your life.

ALL the power is in your hands. ALL of it.

Remember that.

“You need to actually believe that you are worth it…”-Daddy Nams

Until you do, no one else can.

#CDWChallenge #Day8 #DailyQuote #SelfAcceptance #SelfLove @ispeaknigerian

Shalla to the family; Anita, Ant and Namdi, for SOS Hand Holding duty…and talking me off ledges and shiiii. Lol!